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Phelan Chapel - Workin' 5 to 9 01

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  Workin' 5 to 9
  Leadership's comprehensive look at how  much pastors work--and how they feel
about the load.
  by Edward K. Rowell
  출처 http://www.christianity.net/leadership/current/

 If I  hear one more crack  about pastors working  just one day a  week, I may
have to hurt someone."
 So said  my friend Rick as  the community's pastors gathered  for our monthly
lunch at  the El  Sombrero restaurant. "People  don't really believe  that, do
they? I work longer hours than anyone on my board."

 "I was away from home every night last week," groused Andy, as he reached for
the guacamole. "Go  tell my kids their  dad has an easy job  and see what they
say."

 "My deacons told me  I should slow down at church and  play a lot more golf,"
claimed Ron. "They're afraid I'm going to burn out."
 The conversation stopped. We stared, then burst out laughing.

 "It  could happen,"  Ron, the  group  comedian, insisted,  though  he finally
admitted, "Well, maybe what they said  was, 'You better not burn yourself out.
We don't want to have to  go through the trouble of finding your replacement.'
"
 Somewhere between  black humor  and burnout lies  the truth about  a pastor's
workload. To get at that  truth, Leadership asked the Christianity Today, Inc.
research  department,  assisted by  Davison  Dietsch  McCarthy,  to conduct  a
national survey to  determine how pastors spend their  time--and how they feel
about it. Almost 600 pastors responded to the survey, and their honest answers
challenged some long-held assumptions.

 Surprise 1:
 Who is driving pastors to work hard
 Almost half of pastors surveyed said  they are working too hard. (The average
work week of  our respondents was 55  hours per week. See "How  Does Your Week
Measure Up?" on page 89.)
 The study asked why. Are members' expectations of pastors rising?

 Perhaps,  but  less  than  one-fifth  of  respondents  reported  unreasonable
expectations from members.

 Does the pressure come from a church board that asks too much?

 Just 7 percent of pastors  felt unreasonable expectations from their church's
governing board.

 No, the person driving pastors is the one they see in the mirror. The reasons
pastors gave for working too hard were overwhelmingly self-generated:

  "I expect too much of myself"--68 percent.
  "I love what I do so much I don't always know  when to stop"--51 percent.
  "I find it hard to say 'no' "--40 percent.

 But the distinction between  your expectations and others' expectations isn't
always clear. "You  can say all the pressure comes  from yourself," says Peter
Strubhar of First  Missionary Church in Berne,  Indiana, "but the expectations
of what  a few people  think pastoral ministry  ought to  be are never-ending.
From time to time I think, If I'd do this one thing, it would make the critics
happy for a while. That soon becomes my expectation."
 In follow-up interviews, Leadership asked pastors how they combat unrealistic
expectations.

 One helpful practice is to conduct a daily time audit. Gary Blanchard, pastor
of  Assembly of  God  Christian  Center in  St.  Charles, Illinois,  explains:
"Vision-driven, passion-driven  people tend  to go  too far, too  fast without
stopping for course  corrections. The only way I  can evaluate my expectations
is to step back, daily, and reflect:
 "What did I do yesterday that mattered? How did I waste time? Did I veer from
my course or am  I still headed in the right direction?  Am I giving my energy
to the right  things? Without that critical review, I  tend to believe I'm not
doing enough--without stopping to examine the evidence."
 Such  reflection may  have the  added benefit  of helping  others  serve more
effectively in  the church. Eric  Carswell, rector of  Glenview (Illinois) New
Church, says,  "In the book The  Soul of the  New Machine, there's  an image I
relate to: flying upside down by the seat of my pants in the fog while smiling
and waving at the crowd. It's a big adrenaline surge to operate at a high pace
on short deadlines,  but I found that  few people were willing to  join in the
thrills and chills.

 "Our  administrative   coordinator  finally  said,  'You   really  thrive  on
craziness, but  I'm doomed to  either run myself  into the ground  or get left
behind. I won't continue to run at your pace any longer.'

 "I realized  that if I wanted  people to serve  with me, I'd have  to come up
with a  different strategy,  a different pace.  By doing better  planning, not
only  have  I  helped others  get  involved,  but  I've  actually become  more
efficient and met more of my expectations."

 Surprise 2:
 Where the time actually goes
 An oft-quoted statistic  from Juliet B. Schor's  The Overworked American says
that full-time  employees in the  U. S. worked  an average of  almost an extra
month per year in 1987 than they did in 1969.

 Is that true? And are pastors also working more?
 American  Demographics  writer   Cheryl  Russell  cautions  that  "[P]eople's
memories aren't  all they  could be.  . .  . On average,  the number  of hours
people recall working is significantly  greater than the number they record in
diaries."
 To  check  the  accuracy  of  our  survey, we  asked  sixty-two  pastors  who
participated  in the  original study  to  log their  time for  seven  days. We
discovered that pastors do accurately report the number of hours they spend in
ministry each  week; the time-log  participants also reported  an average work
week of 55 hours.

 However, in two key areas, pastors  tend not to remember how they spent those
55 hours.

  In administration. Pastors estimated they  spent about 14 hours each week in
leading  meetings  and worship services, and doing   administrative tasks. The
time logs,  however,  revealed  those same pastors  actually spent   almost 25
hours in such tasks--nearly double  what they estimated.

 It's no surprise  that many in our  study said they would like  to spend less
time in administration and in meetings.

  In prayer. Pastors  estimated they spent six  hours  each week in prayer and
personal   devotions. But those keeping  a time log   recorded four-and-a-half
hours. Perhaps  many  sensed  this disparity intuitively:  Three out   of four
pastors said they would like to spend  more time in prayer.

 Surprise 3:
 How large-church pastors spend time
 A common belief  of pastors is that with experience  and church growth, there
will be  more time to  give to  tasks of preference.  I recall talking  with a
senior pastor of a  large church when I was a solo pastor.  I said, "If I just
had some staff support, I'd sure spend more time preparing to preach."
 He looked wearily over his coffee cup  and said, "If I didn't have a staff to
support, I'd spend more time preparing to preach myself."
 Prophetic words. One  surprising result from our study  was that solo pastors
and senior  pastors spend the  same amount of  time in  sermon preparation: 11
hours each week. (And  73 percent of all pastors said  they would like to give
more time to sermon preparation.)
 The only real difference in the way solo pastors and pastors with staff spend
their  time is  this: Senior  pastors spend  two more  hours per  week leading
meetings and  services, while solo  pastors spend an  extra hour  each week in
pastoral care.
 Pastoring is  pastoring, and  the way  time is spent  shifts little  based on
church size.

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화이트 목사의 감사

빌 4:6-7; 살전 5:18; 엡 2:8; 롬 6:23; 히 13:5; 욥 1:21; 행 16:25 매 주일마다 항상 하나님께 감사하다는 말로 설교를 시작하는 알렉산더 화이트라는 목사가 있었다. 그는 항상 "하나님, 감사합니다. 오늘도 좋은 날씨를 주셔서 감사합니다."라고 말하는 분이셨다. 물론 평소에 좋은 날씨 환경 속에서 그러한 감사는 어찌 보면 누구나 그렇게 말할 수 있다고 생각했을는지 모른다. 그런데 어느 날 갑작스럽게 폭풍우가 몰아치고 있었다. 그 때 한 성도는 알렉산더 화이트 목사가 이러한 상황 속에서 과연 무엇이라고 말할 수 있을지 궁금했다. 그러나 화이트 목사는 "하나님, 감사합니다. 오늘 같은 날씨를 매일 같이 주시지 않음을 감사합니다."라며 하나님께 오히려 감사를 드렸던 것이다.

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감사에 대한 명언 모음

감사는 갚아야 할 의무이지만 어느 누구도 그것을 기대할 권리는 없다. - J.J. 루소 감사는 예의의 가장 아름다운 형태이다. - 자끄 마리땡 감사를 받기 위해서 먼저 고마움을 표시하라. - 그라시안 감사의 의무를 다했다 해서 누구나가 은혜를 잊지 않고 있다고 자만할 수는 없다. - 라 로슈푸코 감사하고 받는 자에게는 풍성한 수확이 따라온다. 말만으로서 감사하는 것은 믿을 만한 것이 못된다. 진정한 감사는 마음으로 감사하고 행동으로 나타내라. - 블레이크 감사하는 마음은 상인의 성실성과는 닮은 데가 있다. 즉 상인의 성실성은 거래를 유지시킨다. 그런데 사람이 지불을 하는 이유는 반환하는 것이 옳기 때문이 아니고 돈을 빌려 줄 사람을 좀더 손쉽게 찾아내기 위해서다. - 라 로슈푸코 감사한 마음처럼 아름다운 것은 없을 것이다. 우리가 누구에겐가 감사하고 있을 때는 거기에는 불화나 반목 같은 것은 발붙이지 못할 것이다. - 박지원 고마움...

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감사의 철학

제2차 세계대전 후 일본 해군장교 가와가미 기이치 씨가 고국으로 돌아왔다. 그러나 일본의 현실은 차마 눈을 뜨고 볼 수 없을 정도로 피폐해져 있었다. 그는 매일 불평과 불만의 세월을 보냈다. 그런데 이런 생활이 계속되자 그의 몸이 굳어져 움직일 수가 없었다. 정신과 의사인 후치다 씨는 그에게 이런 처방을 내렸다. "하루에 1만 번씩 '감사합니다.'라고 말하세요. 감사의 마음이 당신의 병을 치료해 줄 것입니다." 그는 병석에서 매일 '감사합니다.'라고 중얼거렸다. 하루는 그의 아들이 감 두 개를 건네주었다. 가와가미 기이치 씨는 손을 내밀며 '감사합니다.'라고 말했다. 그런데 그 때부터 굳었던 몸이 풀리고 질병에서 벗어났다. - 월간 좋은 생각

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Strategies to keep from falling 03

Regularly rehearsing the consequences. I met with a man who had been a leader in a Christian organization until he fell into immorality. I asked him, "What could have been done to prevent this?" He paused for only a moment, then said with haunting pain and precision, "If only I had really known, really thought through, what it would cost me and my family and my Lord, I honestly believe I never would have done it." In the wake of several Christian leaders' falling into immorality, a co-pastor and I developed a list of specific consequences that would result from our immorality. The list (see article, "The Real and Untold Cost") was devastating, and to us it spoke more powerfully than any sermon on the subject. Periodically, especially when traveling or in a time of weakness, we read through...

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Strategies to keep from falling 02

Dealing with the subtle signs of sexual attraction. There's a mystique about spiritual ministry that some people find attractive. Their attitude toward the pastor can border on infatuation. It's flattering for a male pastor, who perhaps is nursing fresh wounds from the last board meeting, to receive attention from an attractive woman who obviously admires him and hangs on his every word. (The deaconsjumped on his every word.) Often the woman's husband is spiritually dead or weak. Finding him unworthy of her respect, she transfers her affection to this wonderfully spiritual man, her pastor. This is usually unconscious and therefore all the more dangerous. She may send notes of appreciation or small gifts; he may reciprocate. Expressions of affection may inch beyond the healthy brother-siste...

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Strategies to keep from falling 01

Strategies to keep from falling Practical steps to maintain your purity and ministry. -Randy C. Alcorn 출처 http://www.christianity.net/leadership/classics/6L3047.html Of all the articles Leadership has published, this may be the most photocopied. We still get requests for it, eight years later, because the author offered specific, practical steps for handling a common and powerful temptation. When we decided to reprint it, we asked Randy what has happened since the article first appeared. He writes: "I wasn't prepared for the extent to which this article would strike a resonant chord among pastors and parachurch workers around the world. Professors distributed copies to students, missions organizations circulated it to their fields, pastors quoted sections from the pulpit, radio preachers...

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Choose the discussion site carefully. As promised, I called on the Meekers that first morning to be there when they told Jenny their sad news. Cradled in her parents' laps, she alternated between tears and amazingly perceptive observations. She said, "I wish I could just wake up and this would all be a bad dream." When we discussed that accidents sometimes happen even to children, she remarked, "Jarrett never got to grow old and be a grandpa." While we chose Jenny's bedroom for this conversation for the sake of privacy, I now consider that a mistake. Her subsequent unpleasant dreams about things on the walls and dressers might have been because we shared such traumatic news in a place she called her own. Many books help explain the concept of death to children. Most agree that a 5-year-old...

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When a Child Dies In times of greatest grief, there's power in the presence of a pastor. by Cinda Gorman 출처 http://www.christianity.net/leadership/classics/8L1108.html Cinda Gorman wrote this article for Leadership in 1989, and readers deeply appreciated its wisdom. Less than two years after the article appeared, friends in her congregation lost their 20-month-old son in a drowning accident. She told us recently, "The death was probably one of the most difficult things we've experienced. It was more intense and just as emotionally wrenching as the death of Jarrett [whom she writes about in this article]. It never gets easier." Yet later, the grieving father shared with Cinda, "You've helped us like no one else could." That's why a pastor is so needed when a child dies, and why we decided...

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Surprise 4: How pastors learn to manage time When Bill Vest came to Wildwood Baptist Church in Englewood, Tennessee, the church didn't have a budget, constitution, or formal organizational structure. That lack created a huge amount of work. "After five years," he says, "we now have some systems in place to make decisions, organize ministry, and fulfill our vision." Vest was also de facto construction supervisor on their church's addition, pounding nails by day and doing ministry by night. "It about killed me," he admits. Thankfully, the church recognized how tired their pastor was and released Vest from all responsibilities except preaching until he feels rejuvenated. "I think we've entered a new stage in the lifecycle of this church," he says. "I've learned how not to work. Now I'm learni...

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Workin' 5 to 9 Leadership's comprehensive look at how much pastors work--and how they feel about the load. by Edward K. Rowell 출처 http://www.christianity.net/leadership/current/ If I hear one more crack about pastors working just one day a week, I may have to hurt someone." So said my friend Rick as the community's pastors gathered for our monthly lunch at the El Sombrero restaurant. "People don't really believe that, do they? I work longer hours than anyone on my board." "I was away from home every night last week," groused Andy, as he reached for the guacamole. "Go tell my kids their dad has an easy job and see what they say." "My deacons told me I should slow down at church and play a lot more golf," claimed Ron. "They're afraid I'm going to burn out." The conversation stopped. We sta...

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